Cold Shoulder Treatment

A filipino woman and a filipino man have different reasons why they give you the cold shoulder treatment.

A filipino woman acts like this:

-she doesn't talk to you unless its something important or has something to do with the children

-she will sleep in the same bed with you but sleep sideways so you could only view her back and wouldn't even let her back touch your body

-she will cook for you but wouldn't eat together with you

-when you ask her to eat,she would say that she's full or she just ate

-she wouldn't kiss you before you go to work

-she would pretend that she's always busy taking care of your children so she doesn't have time for you

-she no longer wait for you to come home before eating dinner or going to sleep

-she prefers sleeping in your children's room

-she used to be sweet and hugs and kisses you all the time but now she doesn't even care if your there

-she spends more time with her friends.

What could be the cause of her actions?

-you don't show enough affection for her and the kids

-you always forget about important occasions like birthday,anniversary,etc.

-you flirt with other women,she thinks you're cheating

-you no longer wanna make love with her

-you're always busy

-you prefer eating outside than eating the meals she makes for you

-you disrespect her parents

-you're overprotective that you no longer give her the freedom to spend some time with her family and friends

-you're lazy

-you don't want her to do things that she has a passion for

-you treat her like an object that should only stay inside the house and take care of you and your children

Solution

-court her again

-give her flowers and stuffs that you know she likes

-show more affection,simply hugging her while she's busy in the kitchen and saying 'i love you,honey' will melt her heart

-play with your kids

-spend more time with them

-visit her parents at least once a month to make a better bond with them (filipinos love their families so much especially their parents,if you have their parents or other relatives on your side,your silly little wars would end faster)

-go out with her and your children at least once a week

-don't make her feel that you're just doing her a favor

-ask her in a sweet way to cook for you because the food she makes is the best

-kiss her before going to work

-you can leave the children to a friend or someone you trust to take care of them and ask your wife on a date

-just you and her and go to the places the two of you used to spend time together before you got married,this will bring the good memories back then tell her that you haven't changed a thing and never will

-compliment her

-if she feels insecure to some woman,tell her that the woman is nothing compared to her(your wife) beauty.

Of course,some guys may not want to do this because they think that just because filipino women are submissive,they don't have to be spoiled.

These guys are often divorced,they lose their women because of their attitude.

Filipino women may be submissive but they would only follow you if you're a good husband,a good provider and a good father to your children,you should always make her feel secured.

Following these tips doesn't make you a liar,lying doesn't mean you're bad at all.

Lying to make your wife feel better is better than being frank and honest and hurting her feelings.

Of course you can't tell her that this woman is prettier than her or whatsoever because she would get hurt.

Women are very sensitive,thats what you should always remember.

Hope this helps!